11-01-2012
32 weeks completed! Almost 78 kg now. Maximum I can expect is 82-83 kg. That is each baby should be somewhere to the tune of 2 kg. Once all babies are 2.5 kg only they will discharge us from NICU it seems. DrR said today that mother can enter NICU and sit for sometime. Relief!
DrR (Akka) said now the strict bed rest routine will not continue. I will be asked to move around a bit. So that means, another time like this- when I am completely in rest, completely taken care of by others- is not going to happen for a very, very long time..
I am not sure if total bed rest was really required for me. Doctors instructed me to do so, and I followed the instructions mostly. Sometimes I could not, though. According to the hospital records, I leave the bed only once a day, when I get up to go to the bathroom in the morning. Finish toilet, and bath at the time, and then everything else is to be done in bed. Food tray connected to bed, and someone should feed while I lie down. Similarly use bed pan to relieve myself. I am told that ladies with multiple pregnancy who used to take rest like this go full term, or at least 36 weeks. I guess they will cite my example to the future inmates here, saying I took absolute bed rest, so went full term (if that happens)! But the truth is that everyday I eat sitting up. I don't want to disobey them, but I simply can't take food as my stomach always feels full, and it is essential that I eat. And I simply cannot eat while lying down. That too, my cot is slightly raised at the bottom (For all cases where a preterm delivery is suspected, the cot is slightly raised at the foot part. To defy gravity I think. While I was taking rest at home also my cot had this extra wooden piece attached at two legs to keep it up).
So eating becomes very difficult, and I sit up and eat. Similarly I hate using bedpans, and always walk to the bath room. I get up from bed at least 15 times a day. All my instincts insist that I really did not need bed rest until the last trimester. So my advice to the future expectant moms is, not to say no to bed rest, but to listen to your body, understand its capabilities, strengths and limitations. Then consider your own intuitions, and take a decision.
NEXT...33 weeks
NEXT...33 weeks
